Dating Mexican Women: Where & How to Meet Women in Mexico
Bienvenue, mes amis! Welcome to my next journey to Mexico City and five more places in Mexico to meet incredibly beautiful Mexican women and share my experiences, insights, and tips on Mexican women dating.
In this ultimate guide, we’ll start our journey through the bustling streets of the country, brimming with beauty, culture, and passionate souls.
Join me as I show you all the ways to meet Mexican women, decode their traditions, and understand their core values. Get ready to savor the flavors of Mexico’s dating scene and learn how to date a hot Mexican woman as a foreigner.
Key facts about Mexican women
| Female population in Mexico: | 64.57 million |
| Most popular cities to meet Mexican singles | Mexico City, Guadalajara, Monterrey, Cancun |
| Best dating site: | La-Date |
| Average age of marriage: | 30.5 years |
5 interesting facts about Mexican women from TheTravellingFrenchman
My exploration of Mexico started in Mexico City, where my plane landed after a surprisingly easy 12-hour flight.
No crying babies this time! Yay!
I slept almost all the way and came very energized to explore the Mexican culture and relationships—and, of course, to search for a beautiful Mexican woman to ask on a date.
But let’s put my romantic endeavors aside for now and see what I learned about single Mexican women during my time in the country.
Mexican women tend to dominate beauty pageants
Mexican women rule the international beauty contest scene. Mexico is the ultimate beauty powerhouse, having taken home a staggering 3 Miss Universe crowns, 6 victories, and 62 placements.
These ladies know how to showcase a Mexican woman’s traits of beauty, confidence, and elegance all around the world!
But I don’t want to make you think that all Mexican girls look like models or only think about beauty and pageants. Yet, an average Mexican woman is very beautiful. Like many Latina women, Mexicans have long, luscious hair and hot figures.
Your Mexican girlfriend will be very passionate
Well, I’m not just talking about sex (but that, too).
As far as Mexican women personality traits go, being passionate is at the top of them—that is true for all Latin American women. These ladies are fire. They can either ignite your passion, love, and desire or burn you to the ground just by looking at you.
There’s something irresistible about their natural reactions and zero tolerance for crossing their boundaries.
Mexican ladies love to have a good meal
Mexican cuisine is exquisite, and Mexican women play an important part in preserving it. They cherish the family recipes and are kitchen superheroes, conjuring up authentic and tasty delicacies.
When I’m just thinking about the tamales and enchiladas I was lucky to try, my mouth is watering!
Also, food is an important part of the dating culture, as Mexican ladies know what places to pick that serve next-level dishes. And I noticed that many ladies love to cook (one of the big benefits of dating a Mexican woman 😉) for their families and partners—and talk about food a lot.
Many Mexican women have an entrepreneurial gene
Do you know what’s awesome about Mexican women?
They’re completely dominating the corporate sphere! Mexican ladies are stepping up as entrepreneurs and business leaders, which is having a significant influence on the Mexican economy.
These females are all about promoting innovation, creating growth, and making things happen. However, they don’t just have a career-driven vibe, as many American women do.
Mexicans have a strong influence from the Catholic church and family, which makes them want the best of both worlds. They strive for education and careers but still want traditional families and children.
How to meet Mexican women?
During my time in Mexico, I talked to many men and women who are single, have a significant other, or are married. And one of the questions I asked all of them was how to meet a Mexican woman as a foreigner.
Let’s see what they recommended to me the most!
Option 1. Online dating websites & apps
Online dating is very popular in Latin America, as it is all over the world. The Western influence of having more options and meeting dates fast and easy has lured Mexicans too. According to a survey by Statista, 48% of Mexicans are using Tinder and other online dating platforms.
So, going online to meet Mexican singles is a smart choice.
But the choice of the platform to meet Mexican women should depend on your dating goals, as world-popular apps won’t work for everyone. Basically, you have two options:
- International dating websites. These have Mexican girls as well as women from other countries searching for foreign partners. They have different intentions from just chatting to long-distance romance.
- Mail-order bride websites. These are usually partly free Mexican dating sites that have Mexican people interested in serious relationships.
Also, I’ve got many recommendations for dating websites, and I chose those that work best for foreign men.
1. La-Date
Best for:
Chatting with Mexican single women and ladies from South America
What I can say about it:
La-Date is a decent website that makes connecting singles from Latin countries and Westerners happen. It’s free to join, has an easy search, and has a variety of communication tools, but there is no video chat available yet. I enjoyed how fast you can start chatting with potential partners the most.
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La-Date
Gender ratio:
48%
52%
2. ColombiaLady
Best for:
Watching videos of hot Latin girls
What I can say about it:
ColombiaLady’s name may make you assume that there are just Colombian girls, but though they dominate the website, there are many hot Mexican singles registered, too. The platform is partly free and provides text, audio, and video communication, detailed profiles, and even virtual gifts.
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ColombiaLady
Gender ratio:
54%
46%
3. LatamDate
Best for:
Getting Smart Matches based on profile compatibility
What I can say about it:
LatamDate is a popular place for getting that first date from South America. There are many Mexican beauties signed up with detailed profiles and 5+ photos added. I didn’t stumble upon any fake profiles. I liked the variety of communication methods on LatamDate and how active the women on the website are.
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LatamDate
Gender ratio:
61%
39%
4. LoveFort
Best for:
Searching for Latin beauties like on dating social media
What I can say about it:
LoveFort is a modern place to search, connect, and start a long-distance romance. There is everything for convenient online dating, from search filters to chat, mail, photo exchange, and other cool services. My personal fav is the on-site social media Newsfeed, where members regularly post updates.
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LoveFort
Gender ratio:
58%
42%
Option 2. Traveling to Mexico to meet real Mexican girls
Quite an obvious option that I was recommended over and over again when I asked about dating a Mexican woman was visiting Mexico.
As a die-hard traveling fan, I couldn’t miss a chance to explore the option. But while I had a great time exploring the beauty of the land, local people, and cuisine, I can’t say that’s my personal favorite specifically for a love search.
It’s not hard to ask a Mexican lady on a date, as, from my experience, most Mexican women are quite friendly to foreigners. But to go this way, you need to be ready to put your work away for at least 2-3 weeks and spend on flights, transportation, accommodation, and food, while still not having any guarantees.
Option 3. Instagram, Facebook, and other social media apps
Another option that I got recommended quite a few times was the good old social media platforms. As the majority of modern communication is on messengers and social media, it seems like a handy option.
And yes, Mexican women are active users of Instagram and Facebook, and a lot of singles give their IG handle instead of their phone number. Yet, searching for a beautiful Mexican woman who will be single and open to an international relationship is not that easy.
It takes time to find a single Mexican woman among all the Latin women on social media. And it is not that easy to get that reply and not just be left unread.
However, there are many success stories of foreigners and Mexican singles who met on regular social media. If you are willing to put in the effort, it might work for you.
Option 4. Marriage agencies
Another option that I’ve already seen working in other places in the world is traditional matchmaking agencies. The modern version of them is similar to offline marriage dating apps.
I wouldn’t say that matchmaking agencies are extremely popular in Mexico, but reputable agencies have many female members who seek foreign husbands.
I even heard a success story of a Mexican girl who used such services and met her American husband. Now she lives in the US and is expecting their first son.
Even though I am always happy for international couples who manage to overcome the distance and difficulties of immigration, I want to emphasize that unfortunately, many scammers pretend to be matchmaking agencies.
So, if you choose this way, make sure to use the services of trustworthy agencies.
Do’s and don’ts of dating a woman from Mexico
Here are some things to know when dating a Mexican woman.
Do’s
- Display an interest in her background and traditions. It’s an awesome chance to connect with your Mexican lady, learn about traditional gender roles, and find out what Mexican men are expected to do.
- Learn some Spanish. It will help break the ice and demonstrate that you care.
- Be a gentleman. It’s a common thing for all Latin women, as they like traditional courting. So opening doors and paying attention to your date’s needs is essential.
- Express your feelings and devotion. Expressing your affection and making your date feel unique is a route to a successful relationship.
Don’ts
- Avoid stereotypes. Treat your Mexican girlfriend like a person, not just a Mexican.
- Take it easy and don’t put too much pressure on intimacy. Allow things to evolve naturally and read your date’s cues about becoming more intimate.
- Respect her family’s customs and traditions. They are very significant in Mexico.
- No machismo. You may think that girls are into it, but most Mexican women avoid it like fire.
Remember that everyone is unique, that’s why open dialogue and respect are essential. Enjoy the adventure of getting to know your Mexican woman online or offline and building a great relationship with her!
Challenges in dating Mexican Women
Gorgeous women from Mexico have many great features and might be a great match for Westerners. However, I don’t want you to assume that getting that perfect match is a piece of cake.
To help you understand what challenges you may face, your loyal TravellingFrenchMan gathered some of the main ones for you.
Language barrier can make communication harder
Communication might be difficult if you do not speak Spanish fluently. Mexico has very low English proficiency.
But don’t worry; learning a few Spanish words can help bridge the gap and demonstrate that you’re making an attempt.
Cultural differences can lead to misunderstandings or even cultural shock
Mexico stands out with its unique customs and traditions. Understanding and appreciating cultural differences is the only way to make it work. Be prepared that it’ll take some time to adjust to one another’s habits and expectations.
Some of the things that can have cultural shock effects are:
- Closeknit nature of Mexican families and their involvement in everyday life
- A relaxed attitude toward time
- Lots of physical interactions with not-that-close people (hugs, kisses on the cheek, and disregard for personal space get time to get used to, believe me)
Also, if you aim for a more serious relationship, Mexican dating culture peculiarities may add some challenges.
Long-distance relationships
From my experience, long-distance relationships can be tough. Staying connected and finding quality time might be difficult if you and your partner are apart.
But many people make it work!
To overcome the language barrier, cultural differences, and distance, couples should work on trust, patience, and communication. Try to do regular check-ups to see that both of you are on the same page.
Tips for a successful relationship with a Mexican woman
During my time in Mexico, I’ve written down pages of peculiarities of local relationships. Here are some tips that I think are most important for a lasting relationship with a lady from this country.
- Embrace her culture. Demonstrate real interest in and respect for her Mexican heritage.
- Show affection. Use gestures and compliments to express love and admiration.
- Make a good impression on her family. Mexicans value their family a lot, so make sure that you are on a good note with all family members, especially with the parents.
- Accept teamwork. Divide responsibility and make choices together (I’ve noticed that Mexican girls don’t like it when someone decides for them…even if it’s just a drink.)
- Learn some basic Spanish. Consider taking a Spanish course to improve communication between you guys.
Remember that love, honesty, respect, and mutual understanding are essential for a happy relationship.
Conclusion
My time in Mexico was a hit! I’ve learned so much about the unique culture of El Tri, all the cool things about local women, and the peculiarities of Mexican dating.
I’d say that it’s not that hard to find someone you like from the country, but if you want to find a life partner, the language barrier might require a lot of patience. But with all the great traits and values Mexican girls can boast, it’s worth it!
And if you want to start searching for a date or a life partner, I’d recommend checking out specialized dating websites and then hopping on a plane to Mexico.
FAQ from readers about dating Mexican women
Have you been on a date with a Mexican girl? How do you like it?
I’m not the type to kiss and tell, but I’ve been on a couple of dates with Mexican girls. They were awesome! The Mexican singles I’ve met were easy-going and fun; I had a great time.
Do Mexican women like foreign men?
From my experience, yes. Don’t think that all girls are crazy about marrying a foreign guy; most women are very open-minded and curious about relationships with foreigners. And international relationships in Mexico are not something new; they are common and socially accepted.
What to expect when marrying a Mexican woman?
The first thing to expect after marrying a Mexican lady is to learn Spanish. Jokes aside, local girls make the ideal match for Westerners, as they have just the right amount of “traditional” that makes them cherish family while not being prudes.
