Where & How to Meet Asian Women — Best Places to Find an Asian Girlfriend
Hey all! I’m starting today’s post with an interesting statistic I found while researching Asian dating. According to the study, all men (except Asian 😅) who use online dating sites are into Asian women more than any other nationality.
It’s a full-on Asian woman fever!
Well, I can understand them, as I’ve been to several Asian countries, and the elegance and youthful looks of gorgeous Asian girls are one-of-a-kind. And something is alluring about their cute but sexy style.
But how to meet Asian women if you are not in Asia? No search operation is needed 😉. I’ve got you covered!
To help all my foreign friends who share my admiration and want to meet Asian girls, I’ve selected the 3 best ways to date. Without further ado, let’s explore all the top spots and ways to meet single Asian women who are open to relationships with foreign guys!
Sneak peek into the best locations to meet Asian singles
Not all cities and places are good for starting your dating journey. Here is a short preview of hot spots to help you meet Asian girls faster.
- In Asia: If you are up for an adventure, consider checking out the best Asian countries, like China, Japan, and Thailand.
- Online: Give Eastern Honeys a shot—one of the leading Asian dating sites
- In the United States: Los Angeles, San Francisco, and New York City
- In Australia: Sydney, Melbourne, and Brisbane
- In Canada: Toronto, Vancouver, and Montreal
- In Europe: the UK, France, and Germany
As you can see, there are so many cities and places around the world that can help you meet Asian girls. You can pick a spot and start planning your trip, or explore all the options you have with your loyal TheTravelingFrenchMan.
Meeting Asian women on Asian dating sites
According to the study, India has the highest online dating adoption rate in Asia at 57.2%, followed by Thailand at 46.5% and Malaysia at 32.4%.
And I can say that during my time in Asia, I saw how real online dating popularity is.
Locals recommended me 100+ different Asian dating sites and many Asian dating apps as the best way to connect with single Asian women and men. Both younger and older generations are using different Asian dating sites depending on whether they are looking for a serious relationship or something more casual.
Types of online dating platforms Asian singles use
Being in Asia, I was introduced to so many Asian dating sites and apps, but one of the main things you should know about them is that you can divide them into 2 main categories and then choose an Asian dating app or site that suits your needs.
- International dating sites and apps. If you join a dating site of this type, you can choose from Asian singles and hot ladies and guys from all over the world. From my experience, some of the dating sites work pretty well.
- Mono-national Asian dating sites. The name is quite self-explanatory. On Asian dating sites, you can meet women and men from Asian countries.
The niche specialization of Asian dating apps and sites usually provides more options to choose from, but a handy location search on the platform that I’ve used makes both types of online dating services work just fine.
Also, I should mention that if you want to choose an Asian dating site that will work best for you, be cautious about the dominant types of relationships on the particular service. Some platforms are good for casual dating, and some have users with more serious intentions.
Oh, and I barely forgot about the oldest Asian dating sites—mail-order bride services. These are the best Asian dating sites to find a partner for life, as Asian women and men on such sites are usually searching for husbands and wives, are open to international relationships, and could potentially move abroad.
My personal experience of using top Asian dating sites
I took several Asian dating sites by storm, as I believe that the easiest way to meet Asian women is online.
I tested both free Asian dating sites, paid platforms, and partly paid options. From my experience, even if the site advertises itself as completely free, there are some hidden fees. Also, a fully free online dating site attracts so many scammers, and the rate of fake profiles is rocket high!
That’s why my personal fave is partly free on the best Asian dating sites. They still have the benefit of free features, but providing some services on a paid basis can maintain the high quality of the service.
Key takeaways from my usage of the best Asian dating sites
I liked online dating in Asia, and here are some of my key takeaways from the experience:
- Not every Asian dating site has real Asian singles, and you need to join only trusted platforms.
- Convenience is a must. I got quickly irritated if the dating site was freezing (I almost had a panic attack when the site froze for more than 5 min when I was buying a subscription). The worst possible moment. I’ve already pictured how nasty scammers split all my money in my bank account. Thank God everything turned out to be fine. I got lucky that time.
- Reply rate matters. That’s something I track a lot. Sometimes you join an Asian dating site and see so many hot girls, but no one replies when you start spending money. That’s why you need to be sure that Asian members are active.
- If you don’t check prices, you’ll overspend a lot. Some of the sites are credit-based, others have subscriptions, but regardless, check the prices so you don’t get hit by unexpected expenses. They happen to the best of us (finger points at me).
My story of interactions with Asian singles
One of my favorite things about using an online dating app or dating site in Asia is how dynamic everything is. I had so many great conversations with beautiful Asian women; some of them were searching for casual dating (I was even offered a one-night stand), while others were seeking serious relationships.
Using sites is usually easy if the Asian dating app or site is legit. You just sign up, create a profile, and start exploring profiles of Asian men or women. My favorite services I used were:
- Swiping match and search filters
- Instant messaging features
- Video chat (which can get so steamy!)
- Virtual gifts like compliments
- Personality test for max compatibility
During my long travels in Asia, I’ve been on over 40 dates with the help of online dating (no stats on how many Asian women left me on read 😶. That will be a secret I never tell). Some of the dates were awesome, while some were awkward.
But that’s life!
Overall, there are so many Asian members online that if you want to find a beautiful Asian woman, just choose a niche Asian dating site.
Here are some of the best platforms for guys from Western countries who want to date a hot Asian girl.
|Best for chatting and sending love letters to hot Asian singles
|Best for good paid-to-free features ratio
|Best for searching for your perfect Asian girl while still keeping options open
|Best for instant communication with like-minded partners
Traveling to Asian Country
“C’est aimer découvrir le monde, tandis que l’amour pour voyager enrichit l’âme.”
Which translates as “To travel is to love discovering the world, while the love for traveling enriches the soul.”
I wouldn’t call myself TheTravelingFrenchMan if I missed a chance to promote traveling. Exploring the world, especially Asia, can be an amazing adventure full of breathtaking views and drooling delicacies. And you can find an Asian date while traveling. Love can happen in the most unexpected places, and sometimes it only takes one to make the first move.
My experience with traveling across Asia + my opinions on local women’s
Asian culture is so inspiring and unique. I’ve probably dreamed about getting the chance to go to Asia since I was 16 or so. And when I got a chance to visit Asia, my bags were instantly packed without any hesitation.
You may wonder, where have I already been?
One of the most beautiful countries I’ve ever seen. I was shocked that almost half (40%, to be exact) of Japanese men in their 30s had never been on a date. And Japanese women have a bit better situation but still have a wowing 25%. I don’t know how these ladies manage to do that. As they are so stunning! Japanese elegance is just the next level of femininity.
This country sets a lot of trends across Asia, and dating culture is no exception. From the marriage market in Shanghai to the best dating sites, China has it all. Oh, and Chinese women have a lot to offer potential partners. They are beautiful, smart, and ambitious. They reminded me a lot of American girls but with a more Eastern appearance and traditional values.
The land of innovation, hundreds of couples holidays, and, of course, gorgeous Asian singles. I enjoyed this country a lot. It has a great mix of old traditions and modern vibes. And women are very easygoing. And they are into using dating apps a lot, even for group dates.
Even a thought about this country makes me smile, as the locals are also welcoming and friendly. I felt at home there, even though it was my first time in Thailand. Thai women are a bit different from traditional Asian singles, as they usually have more tanned skin and rounder facial features. Oh, and how laid-back they are!
Filipina women are probably the most popular among Asian singles. At least international marriage stats think so. And I understand what foreign guys find in Filipino girls, as they are very attractive, kind, and intelligent. Oh, and many women are very hard-working, as they are often the ones to support their families and kids.
Tips for guys who want to travel to Asia to meet Asian singles
You might wonder how to find an Asian woman to date in these countries.
If you plan to visit one of the Asian countries to meet your “the one,” here are some tips to make it work and at the same time have a positive experience:
- Feel the culture. Being respectful is always a must, but what I noticed is that it’s important to show a lot of appreciation to people in Asia. People here are more traditional, let’s say. So, your approach to local women should be more of a planned strategy than an in-your-face blunt question to someone at random.
- Learn some basic terms. Communication with Asian singles can be really challenging if you don’t speak any of the languages. Many ladies spoke a few Asian languages, and I felt so stupid trying to express myself. That’s good old Google Translate for lending a hand!
- Don’t go for the first dating service you see in Asia. Using a dating site in Asia works the same as using it abroad. But you get the perk of meeting for an IRL date earlier. Still, the key here is to use a reliable service, as, unfortunately, there are many fake online daters.
- Avoid stereotypes. Not all Asians love anime—just deal with it. I’ve seen a few twitching eyes from Asian men and women when I mentioned it.
- No rushing. From my experience, relationships in Asia have a weirdly slow pace. On the one hand, taking things slow is important, as PDA and various overly expressive ways of showing love are not very common in Asia. Yet, for example, in South Korea, some women assume you are a couple if you go on one date. So, if you don’t want to tie the knot right away, you better be very clear on where your relationship stands.
And I can go on and on, as I spent a month traveling in Asia. If you are curious about my endeavors in a particular country, go to destinations.
Oh, and I try to give a lot of tips there as well.
Dating locally in your country
Another somewhat unexpected option for searching for a hot Asian date doesn’t require a lot of traveling. Your Asian woman might be closer than you think…
The majority of Western countries have large communities of Asian people.
Let’s take the US. As of 2020, almost 20 million people identified as Asian. This is why Asian-American dating is not a challenge in the US. Most Asian Americans try to connect with the community and form connections with people who have Asian backgrounds.
But where to meet Asian girls in your country?
You can meet Asian Americans or just people from other Asian countries in:
- Local Asian districts near your area
- Language exchange courses/schools
- Asian Facebook groups
- Asian restaurants, cafes, and other cultural places
Also, you might already know Asian Americans, and you can use these connections to be introduced to more Asian women, men, or ladies of Asian descent who can potentially be your Asian match.
I won’t lie; you’ll need persistence to make it work. But most Asian women abroad are open to relationships outside their ethnicity. And also, a big perk is that the chances are high that when you meet Asian singles abroad, they usually have a better level of English.
Language barriers can be a real buzzkill!
I adore Asia, and I’m happy that in the 21st century, meeting an Asian single is not that hard. You can travel and explore one of the beautiful countries in Asia and find love, or you can try your luck to meet a partner in your local Asian community—there are so many Asian-American singles and hot Asian women in Europe.
But my favorite way to search for meaningful relationships in Asia is undoubtedly online. There are plenty of Asian dating sites with real Asian people who are interested in various types of dating, from just online relationships to marriage.
So, I’d say if you want to date Asian women, pick a niche online dating site and start your love story without delays!
I’m passionate about exploring the world, enjoying the best of it, meeting new people, and falling in love. I believe that love and travel are what I was made for. And I’m here to share my story and honest opinions with you!